What can we do together?
A browsable library of small, ordinary things to do with your child — most of them five minutes, most of them needing nothing you do not already have. Choose an age, then narrow it down to whatever today actually allows.
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Face to Face
Hold your baby about a forearm's distance away and let them study your face. Slowly stick out your tongue or open your mouth wide, then wait.
0 mo – 4 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Tell Them What's Happening
While you change or dress your baby, say what you are doing in simple words. "Now the left arm. Now we're all done."
0 mo – 12 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Down Here With You
During awake tummy time, lie down facing your baby so your face is at their level, and talk to them quietly.
0 mo – 6 mo · 2 min · At home · Calm · No materials
The Same Song Each Time
Pick one short song and sing it at the same moment each day — before the bath, or while getting dressed. Repetition is the point.
0 mo – 18 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Hello, Hands
Bring your baby's hands gently together where they can see them, and let them look. Name them: "these are your hands."
1 mo – 6 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Say Something, Then Wait
Say one short thing to your baby, then stay quiet and count slowly to five. Often a sound, a look or a small movement comes back.
1 mo – 12 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Water Falling
In the bath, pour a little water from a cup where your baby can watch and hear it. Pause, then pour again when they look back.
2 mo – 18 mo · 5 min · At home · Calm
A Tour of the Room
Carry your baby slowly around a room and stop at three things. Name each one and let them look for as long as they want.
1 mo – 12 mo · 5 min · At home · Calm · No materials
Gentle Bicycle Legs
During a nappy change, hold your baby's feet and move their legs in a slow cycling motion while you chat to them.
0 mo – 9 mo · 2 min · At home · Gentle · No materials
Quiet Time on Your Chest
Sit back comfortably with your baby resting on your chest and simply be quiet together for a few minutes.
0 mo – 6 mo · 10 min · At home · Calm · No materials
Light and Shade
Carry your baby to a window and let them look at the changing light. Describe what you can both see.
0 mo – 8 mo · 5 min · At home · Calm · No materials
Loud Voice, Soft Voice
Say the same short phrase twice — once in a low voice, once in a high one — and see which your baby prefers.
1 mo – 12 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Almost Within Reach
Put a light, safe object just close enough for your baby to reach. Let them work at it, and cheer the moment they touch it.
3 mo – 9 mo · 5 min · At home · Gentle
Your Turn
Sit facing each other and gently roll a large soft ball back and forth. Give your child a chance to start the turn too.
6 mo – 2 yr · 5 min · At home · Active
Down It Goes
When your baby drops something from the high chair, pick it up and hand it back with the same cheerful word each time. Then wait a moment and see whether they want another turn.
6 mo – 15 mo · 5 min · At home · Calm
Where Did It Go?
Hide your face behind a light cloth, wait a beat, then come back with a smile. Let your baby pull the cloth away when they start reaching for it.
4 mo – 18 mo · 5 min · Anywhere · Gentle
In and Out
Give your baby a shallow box and a few large safe objects. Taking things out comes first; putting them back comes much later.
7 mo – 20 mo · 10 min · At home · Calm
Who Is That?
Sit together in front of a mirror. Wave, then wait. Name who you see: "that's you, and that's me."
4 mo – 2 yr · 5 min · At home · Calm
Soft, Rough, Cool
Let your baby touch three different safe surfaces — a towel, a wooden spoon, a cool cup. Say the word for each as they touch it.
4 mo – 18 mo · 5 min · At home · Calm
Clap, Then Wait
Clap twice, then stop and look at your baby. If they move, wiggle or make a sound, treat it as their turn and clap back.
5 mo – 20 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Gentle · No materials
Under the Towel
Hold a towel up like a low roof and encourage your baby to move underneath it towards you.
7 mo – 18 mo · 5 min · At home · Active
This One or That One?
Hold up two safe objects and let your baby look at or reach for one. Whatever they choose, name it and give it to them.
5 mo – 2 yr · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm
Just One Page
Open a picture book on any page and talk about one picture. Stopping after a page is a complete success.
4 mo – 3 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Calm
The Laundry Postman
Hand your child one safe piece of clothing at a time and carry it to the basket together. Let them decide which item goes next.
9 mo – 3 yr · 10 min · At home · Gentle
Three Good Things
At bedtime, name three ordinary things that happened today in a calm voice. It does not matter that your baby cannot answer yet.
2 mo – 6 yr · 2 min · At home · Calm · No materials
One Minute Outside
On an ordinary trip out, stop for a moment and stay still. Let your baby hear whatever is there — traffic, birds, wind — and say what you can hear.
0 mo – 12 mo · 2 min · Outdoors · Calm · No materials
A Seat at the Table
Sit your baby facing the table while you eat, and say what you are doing between mouthfuls. Watching a meal happen is the whole activity.
2 mo – 10 mo · 5 min · At home · Calm · No materials
Moving on the Grass
If your child is already moving about, let them crawl or walk on grass or a soft uneven surface. It is slower and stranger than the floor at home, and that is the interesting part.
8 mo – 2 yr · 10 min · Outdoors · Active · No materials
You're the Leader
For a moment, copy the movements your child makes. Then make one movement yourself and see whether they want to copy you.
12 mo – 6 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Gentle · No materials
Keep the Story Going
Start with: "Today we found a tiny elephant in the kitchen…" Each person adds one part of the story.
2 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Big Ones, Small Ones
Put out a handful of safe household objects and sort them into big and small together. Let your child move things between piles.
20 mo – 4 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm
Hello, Who's Calling?
Hold a block or a banana to your ear and have a short pretend phone call. Pass it to your child and answer them back.
16 mo – 4 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Calm
Walk Like a Bear
Cross the room as a bear, then a cat, then a bird. Let your child choose the next animal.
20 mo – 5 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Active · No materials
Hidden Under a Cup
Hide a small toy under one of two cups while your child watches, then let them find it. Move slowly enough to be followed.
14 mo – 3 yr · 5 min · At home · Calm
Build It, Knock It
Stack three or four safe objects together, then let your child knock them down. Knocking down is the good part.
12 mo – 3 yr · 5 min · At home · Gentle
Find Something Red
Choose a colour and take turns finding things around you in that colour. Three finds is a full game.
2 yr – 6 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
What Was That Sound?
Stop and listen together for a moment, then name one sound each. A car, a bird, the fridge.
22 mo – 6 yr · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
One Line Each
Share one sheet of paper and take turns adding a single line. See what it turns into together.
2 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm
A Proper Hello
When someone comes home, stop what you are doing and greet them together — a wave, a hug, a shout of their name.
12 mo – 6 yr · 2 min · At home · Gentle · No materials
Through the Slot
Cut a slot in a shoebox lid and let your child post lids or cards through it. Lining the piece up is the interesting part.
15 mo – 3 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm
What's Missing?
Put four objects on a tray, look together, then cover them and remove one. What is missing?
3 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm
Count as We Go
Count the steps out loud together as you climb the stairs. Whatever number you reach is the right one.
2 yr – 5 yr · 2 min · Anywhere · Gentle · No materials
Guess by Touch
Put a familiar object in a bag and let your child feel it through the fabric and guess what it is.
2 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm
Sway Together
Hold your baby close and sway slowly from side to side, humming whatever comes to mind.
0 mo – 12 mo · 5 min · Anywhere · Gentle · No materials
Name What You See
When your baby frowns, yawns or brightens, say what you notice: "you look tired", "that made you happy".
0 mo – 2 yr · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Slow Blinks
Hold your baby's gaze and blink slowly a few times. Watch whether they settle or blink back.
0 mo – 8 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
A Different View
Change where your baby lies during awake time — a new room, a different side of the sofa — and let them look around.
0 mo – 10 mo · 5 min · At home · Calm · No materials
Hold On Tight
Offer your finger for your baby to grip, and talk to them while they hold on.
0 mo – 8 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
After the Feed
When your baby is full and calm, hold them upright and simply talk about the day for a minute or two.
0 mo – 12 mo · 5 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
The Floating Scarf
Wave a light scarf slowly above your baby so it rises and falls where they can watch it.
0 mo – 12 mo · 2 min · At home · Calm
The Kitchen Drum
Turn a plastic bowl upside down and let your baby pat it with an open hand. Join in with a slow beat they can follow.
6 mo – 2 yr · 5 min · At home · Gentle
That Crinkly Sound
Scrunch a clean sheet of paper near your baby, then hand it over and let them try to make the sound themselves.
4 mo – 12 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm
Look What I Found
On a walk, stop and point at one thing — a tree, a cat, a bus. Say its name once and give your baby time to look.
4 mo – 2 yr · 5 min · Outdoors · Calm · No materials
Pull It Closer
Put a safe object on a cloth, just out of reach. Leave the near edge of the cloth by your baby's hand and let them discover that pulling brings it closer.
7 mo – 15 mo · 5 min · At home · Calm
Say It Back
When your baby makes a sound, make the same one back. Then add one small change and see whether they follow.
3 mo – 18 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Along the Sofa
If your child is already pulling up to stand, sit a little way along the sofa and invite them to make their way to you.
8 mo – 16 mo · 5 min · At home · Active · No materials
Watch the Branches Move
Sit or stand where your baby can see a tree or a hanging line. Say nothing for a while and let them watch it move.
2 mo – 18 mo · 5 min · Outdoors · Calm · No materials
Humming, Held Close
Hold your baby against your chest and hum one low, slow tune. They feel it as much as they hear it.
0 mo – 6 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Kick It Back
Stand a few steps apart and take turns kicking a soft ball to each other. Cheer the attempt, not the accuracy.
18 mo – 5 yr · 10 min · Anywhere · Active
Where Does This Live?
Pick up one object and ask where it belongs. Walk there together and put it away, then stop. One object is enough.
15 mo – 4 yr · 5 min · At home · Calm · No materials
Dance, Then Freeze
Play or hum some music and dance together. Stop the sound suddenly and everybody freezes until it starts again.
2 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · At home · Active · No materials
Puddle Stomping
Put on boots and jump in a puddle together. Count the jumps out loud if your child enjoys that.
20 mo – 6 yr · 10 min · Outdoors · Active · No materials
Cooking for the Toys
Use an empty bowl and spoon to cook a pretend meal together, then serve it to a toy. Ask what is on the menu.
20 mo – 4 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm
Three Slow Breaths
Before sleep, take three slow breaths together with a hand on your tummies. Make it quiet and unhurried.
2 yr – 6 yr · 2 min · At home · Calm · No materials
Hide and Seek, Small Version
Hide somewhere very obvious in the room and let your child find you. Make a small sound if they need a clue.
18 mo – 5 yr · 10 min · At home · Gentle · No materials
A Big Sheet, Two Crayons
Tape a large sheet of paper down and give one chunky crayon each. Make marks alongside each other without asking for anything in particular.
16 mo – 3 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm
I Spy Something…
Take turns describing something you can both see without naming it, until the other person guesses.
3 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
What Happens Next?
Stop halfway through a familiar story and ask your child what happens next. Follow their version, even if it is new.
3 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Who Knows Who?
Take turns asking easy questions about each other: favourite food, favourite colour, funniest moment.
3 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Make a Den
Drape a blanket over two chairs and make a small hideaway. Sit inside together for a few minutes.
2 yr – 6 yr · 15 min · At home · Calm
Sort by Colour
Sort the clean laundry into two piles by colour together, talking about each choice.
2 yr – 5 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm
Count Five Things Outside
On a walk, agree what you are counting — trees, red cars, birds — and count until you reach five.
2 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Outdoors · Gentle · No materials
Twenty Questions, Small Version
Think of an animal and let your child ask yes-or-no questions until they guess it. Three questions is plenty at first.
3 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Wait for a Bird
Sit by a window or outside and wait quietly until you both see a bird. Then describe it to each other.
3 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Copy My Rhythm
Clap a short pattern and let your child copy it. Then let them set one and you copy — theirs is allowed to be impossible.
20 mo – 6 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Gentle · No materials
Nose, Ear, Toes
While drying your baby after a bath, touch and name three body parts in the same order each time.
5 mo – 2 yr · 2 min · At home · Calm · No materials
Up and Down, Slowly
Hold your baby securely and lift them slowly up and gently back down, saying "up" and "down" as you go.
3 mo – 15 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Gentle · No materials
How Does That Feel?
Outside, let your baby put a hand on grass, a wall or a smooth stone. Name what it feels like and let them decide how long.
7 mo – 2 yr · 5 min · Outdoors · Calm · No materials
Come and Find Me
If your child is already moving about on the floor, crawl slowly a short way and look back. Let them come to you, then make a fuss when they arrive.
7 mo – 16 mo · 5 min · At home · Active · No materials
Find the Other Sock
While folding laundry, hold up one sock and ask your child to find its pair in the pile.
2 yr – 5 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm
Chase Your Shadow
On a sunny day, find your shadows and try to make them wave, jump or grow taller.
2 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Outdoors · Gentle · No materials
Slowly, Then Quickly
Walk across the room as slowly as you both can, then as quickly as is safe. Let your child call which one is next.
18 mo – 4 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Active · No materials
The Cardboard Car
Turn a cardboard box into a car, a boat or a bus and go somewhere together. Ask your child where you are heading.
2 yr – 5 yr · 15 min · At home · Gentle
Squeeze and Poke
Give your child a lump of soft dough and squeeze one yourself beside them. No shapes to make and nothing to finish.
18 mo – 4 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm
One Song, Two Actions
Pick a song you both know and give it two hand actions — a clap and a wave. Do the same two every time you sing it.
14 mo – 5 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Gentle · No materials
Aim for the Basket
Put a basket a few steps away and take turns tossing rolled-up socks into it. Move closer or further to keep it fun.
2 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · At home · Active
Do Something Kind
Together, do one small kind thing for someone in the house — fetch a glass of water, plump a cushion, say thank you.
3 yr – 6 yr · 5 min · At home · Calm · No materials
The Best Bit of Today
Each say one good moment from today. Small moments count as much as big ones.
3 yr – 6 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Sing It Wrong on Purpose
Sing a song your child knows but change one word to something silly. Wait for them to correct you.
2 yr – 6 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Faces in the Mirror
Stand at a mirror together. Make one face and let your child copy it, then let them make one for you.
2 yr – 6 yr · 5 min · At home · Calm · No materials
One Finger at a Time
Stroke the back of your baby's closed hand until it opens, then let them curl around your finger. No hurry, and no need for it to work.
0 mo – 5 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Push It Along
If your child is already pulling up to stand, give them a sturdy box or a dining chair to push along the floor at their own pace.
9 mo – 20 mo · 5 min · At home · Active
Watch the World Go By
Sit on a bench or a step outside and watch what passes — people, cars, a dog. Say what you see and let your child pick the next thing to watch.
4 mo – 4 yr · 5 min · Outdoors · Calm · No materials
You Carry This One
Give your child one light item to hold while you shop or unpack, and let them put it in the bag or on the shelf.
18 mo – 5 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Calm
Catch the Bubbles
Blow bubbles and let your child chase and pop them. Blow them low and slow for younger children.
14 mo – 5 yr · 10 min · Anywhere · Active
Put Teddy to Bed
Before your child's own bedtime, put a soft toy to bed together — blanket, goodnight, lights down.
18 mo – 4 yr · 5 min · At home · Calm
Tap the Beat on Your Knees
Sing or play a song you both like and tap the beat on your knees. Let your child tap wherever they like, at whatever speed.
16 mo – 4 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Gentle · No materials
Build an Obstacle Course
Use cushions, a chair and a blanket to make a short course. Let your child design at least one part of it.
2 yr – 6 yr · 15 min · At home · Active
Draw and Deliver
Draw a small picture together for someone in the family and deliver it to them by hand.
3 yr – 6 yr · 15 min · At home · Calm
The Slowest Race
Race across the room to see who can move the slowest without stopping. The last one there wins.
3 yr – 6 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Gentle · No materials
Say It How I Say It
Say one everyday word in a whisper, then very slowly, then in a sing-song. Let your child copy each one and then choose the next way.
2 yr – 5 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Loud Line, Quiet Line
Sing one line of a song loudly and the next one almost in a whisper. Let your child decide which line is which.
2 yr – 6 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Gentle · No materials
Hello, Feet
Press your thumb gently along the sole of each foot and name them out loud. Stop the moment they pull away.
0 mo – 8 mo · 2 min · Anywhere · Calm · No materials
Watering Together
Fill a small cup and let your child pour it onto a plant. Talk about what the plant needs.
20 mo – 6 yr · 5 min · At home · Calm
One Thing From Outside
On a walk, let your child choose one safe natural thing to bring home — a leaf, a stone — and put it somewhere special.
20 mo – 6 yr · 10 min · Outdoors · Calm · No materials
Three Stops on the Way
On a walk you are taking anyway, stop three times. Each time, look at one thing properly and say what you notice about it.
12 mo – 3 yr · 10 min · Outdoors · Calm · No materials
Getting Teddy Ready
Put a hat or a sock on a soft toy and say you are getting it ready to go out. Let your child decide what it still needs.
17 mo – 3 yr · 5 min · At home · Calm
Dance Your Name
Clap out the beats in each person's name, then invent a small movement for each beat.
3 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Anywhere · Gentle · No materials
Walk the Line
Lay a length of tape or a scarf on the floor and walk along it heel to toe, arms out.
2 yr – 6 yr · 5 min · At home · Gentle
Whose Plane Goes Further?
Fold two simple paper planes and throw them from the same spot. Try again with one small change.
3 yr – 6 yr · 15 min · Anywhere · Gentle
Only When I Say It Twice
Give simple actions — hands up, turn around — but only do them when you say it twice. Getting caught out is the joke, not a mistake.
3 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Anywhere · Gentle · No materials
You Set the Table
Ask your child to put one unbreakable item on the table for each person before a meal.
2 yr – 6 yr · 5 min · At home · Calm
Driving to the Shop
Push a toy car or a small box along the floor and say where it is going. Let your child decide what it collects and bring it back.
18 mo – 3 yr · 5 min · At home · Gentle
Dig and See
Find a patch of soil outside and dig a small hole together. Look at what you find, then fill it back in.
2 yr – 6 yr · 15 min · Outdoors · Gentle
Make a Shaker
Put a spoonful of rice in a small bottle and close the lid tightly. Shake it along to a song you both know.
2 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · At home · Gentle
Tear It, Stick It
Tear an old magazine into pieces together and stick them anywhere on a sheet of paper. There is nothing it is supposed to look like.
2 yr – 5 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm
You Pour, I Hold
Hold a bowl steady and let your child tip a snack into it from a small cup.
16 mo – 4 yr · 5 min · At home · Calm
The Toy Asks a Question
Give a soft toy a voice and let it ask your child one thing — what shall we do, or what is that. Answer as yourself.
20 mo – 4 yr · 5 min · Anywhere · Calm
Run to the Tree and Back
In an open space, pick something to run to and back from. Let your child choose the target and start you both off.
2 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Outdoors · Active · No materials
Dry Your Own Arm
After the bath, hand your child the towel and let them dry one part of themselves before you help with the rest.
20 mo – 5 yr · 5 min · At home · Calm
Today's Weather Report
Look out of the window together and let your child present the weather like a reporter.
3 yr – 6 yr · 5 min · At home · Calm · No materials
Along the Low Wall
Find a low wall, kerb or log and walk along it holding your hand. Let your child set the pace and get down whenever they want.
2 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Outdoors · Active · No materials
One Job in the Kitchen
Give your child one real job while you cook — washing vegetables, tearing lettuce, stirring a cold bowl.
2 yr – 6 yr · 15 min · At home · Calm
Playing Shop
Line up a few items and take turns being the shopkeeper and the customer. Use bottle tops as money.
3 yr – 6 yr · 15 min · At home · Calm
How Far Can You Jump?
Outside, mark a starting line with a stick or a shoe and jump forward from it. Mark where you land and take turns trying again.
3 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · Outdoors · Active · No materials
Two Minutes of Tidying
Pick one small area and tidy it together for two minutes, then stop whether or not it is finished.
2 yr – 6 yr · 2 min · At home · Gentle · No materials
Shadow Shapes on the Wall
In a dim room, shine a torch and make shadow shapes with your hands. Let your child invent one.
3 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm
Read the Recipe to Me
Let your child "read" the next step from the pictures or from memory while you cook.
3 yr – 6 yr · 10 min · At home · Calm · No materials
You Are In Charge of One Thing
On a short errand you are doing anyway, give your child one job for the whole trip — carrying the bag, or remembering what you came for.
2 yr – 6 yr · 15 min · Outdoors · Gentle · No materials