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Baby 7–12 months

12 Month Old Baby

Around the first birthday

What this month often looks like

  • Around the first birthday many babies play back-and-forth games like peek-a-boo and wave bye-bye.
  • Some babies begin saying a special word they use for a parent or a familiar caregiver.
  • Many pull up to stand and move sideways along the furniture while holding on.

How your baby is developing

  • Pulling up to stand while holding stable support is something many babies do around their first birthday, though the age varies widely.
  • Pulling up to stand comes first — and at the start they may not know how to get down again.
  • Once standing feels secure, they cruise alongside furniture when your hands are not available.
  • Picking up a small safe object between thumb and finger is something many babies do around one year.
  • Looking for an object that you hide from view is something many babies do around one year.
  • Lifting the cloth is a different move from staring at where it was.
  • Waving goodbye is something many babies do around one year.
  • What looks like a gift is often an invitation to keep going.
  • Using a familiar sound or word with meaning, such as calling a parent, is something many babies do around one year. Some do this later, and the range is wide.
  • Independent walking is not a first-birthday requirement. Walking while holding on to furniture is what many babies are doing around their first birthday.

Everyday care and connection

  • NHS advises no more than 20 minutes at a time in a baby walker, bouncer or seat.
  • A pincer grip reaches what a whole hand could not, so a floor-level check for small objects is worth repeating in rooms that were made safe months ago.
  • Hide a toy fully under a cloth while they watch, then wait rather than helping.
  • Roll a soft ball back and forth. The returning is the part being practised.
  • A familiar action song, repeated, is still one of the most useful things you can offer.

How you may be feeling

  • Look how far you and your baby have come.
  • It is okay to still be figuring things out.
  • Standing practice arrives on its own schedule and does not need encouraging.
  • Finer hand control usually shows up in what gets picked off the floor first.
  • Being wrong about where it went is part of working it out.
  • Gestures often carry meaning steadily before any word does.
  • A year in, most of what you know about your baby was learned by paying attention, not by being told.

Something that may help

Celebrating small wins — yours and theirs — is worth it.

What can we do today?

39 activity ideas suit this age — most take about five minutes and need nothing you do not already have.

  • Tell Them What's Happening
  • The Same Song Each Time
  • Say Something, Then Wait

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What can we prepare?

ParentSide has 60 recipes for 12–18 months, each with its texture, portion and preparation notes.

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Professional support

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Sources and updates

If you are worried about your wellbeing or your baby's wellbeing, consider contacting a qualified health professional.

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