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Baby 4–6 months

4 Month Old Baby

Around four months

What this month often looks like

  • Around this age many babies smile to get attention and make sounds back when you talk.
  • Some hold their head steady and push up on their elbows during tummy time.
  • Many bring their hands to their mouth.

How your baby is developing

  • Head steadiness is still being practised rather than finished, and it can look different from one hold to the next.
  • Your baby may spend time moving their hands where they can see them.
  • An attempt that does not connect is still an attempt.
  • Cooing may widen into chuckles and more varied sounds during play.
  • Faces stay compelling: your baby may hold your gaze for longer stretches than a few weeks ago.
  • The changes worth noticing this month are not the dramatic ones.
  • Around four months many babies hold their head steady without support when held upright, and may push up on their elbows when lying on their front.
  • Bringing hands to the mouth and looking at their own hands are common around this age.

Everyday care and connection

  • Time on their back to kick freely is part of it too.
  • A light toy placed just within comfortable reach invites the arm to try. When their interest runs out, let them stop.
  • Copying the sounds they make, then waiting, teaches the shape of conversation before words exist.
  • Floor time on a firm, flat surface gives room to practise pushing up without being propped.

How you may be feeling

  • You may feel more confident some days and still unsure on others.
  • That mix is common.
  • Small preferences are becoming visible — a hold, a room, a time of day that tends to go better.
  • Play is short at this age. A few engaged minutes is a full session.
  • Four months is often when the outside world starts asking what your baby can do. There is no schedule to keep up with.
  • An anchor age is a description of many babies, not a deadline for yours.

Something that may help

Following your baby's cues at their own pace is enough.

What can we do today?

32 activity ideas suit this age — most take about five minutes and need nothing you do not already have.

  • Face to Face
  • Tell Them What's Happening
  • Down Here With You

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Professional support

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Sources and updates

If you are worried about your wellbeing or your baby's wellbeing, consider contacting a qualified health professional.

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