Baby 4–6 months
4 Month Old Baby
Around four months
What this month often looks like
- Around this age many babies smile to get attention and make sounds back when you talk.
- Some hold their head steady and push up on their elbows during tummy time.
- Many bring their hands to their mouth.
How your baby is developing
- Head steadiness is still being practised rather than finished, and it can look different from one hold to the next.
- Your baby may spend time moving their hands where they can see them.
- An attempt that does not connect is still an attempt.
- Cooing may widen into chuckles and more varied sounds during play.
- Faces stay compelling: your baby may hold your gaze for longer stretches than a few weeks ago.
- The changes worth noticing this month are not the dramatic ones.
- Around four months many babies hold their head steady without support when held upright, and may push up on their elbows when lying on their front.
- Bringing hands to the mouth and looking at their own hands are common around this age.
Everyday care and connection
- Time on their back to kick freely is part of it too.
- A light toy placed just within comfortable reach invites the arm to try. When their interest runs out, let them stop.
- Copying the sounds they make, then waiting, teaches the shape of conversation before words exist.
- Floor time on a firm, flat surface gives room to practise pushing up without being propped.
How you may be feeling
- You may feel more confident some days and still unsure on others.
- That mix is common.
- Small preferences are becoming visible — a hold, a room, a time of day that tends to go better.
- Play is short at this age. A few engaged minutes is a full session.
- Four months is often when the outside world starts asking what your baby can do. There is no schedule to keep up with.
- An anchor age is a description of many babies, not a deadline for yours.
Something that may help
Following your baby's cues at their own pace is enough.
What can we do today?
32 activity ideas suit this age — most take about five minutes and need nothing you do not already have.
- Face to Face
- Tell Them What's Happening
- Down Here With You
Professional support
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Sources and updates
If you are worried about your wellbeing or your baby's wellbeing, consider contacting a qualified health professional.